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The Time Like Grasses别人笑我忒疯癫，我笑他人看不穿；不见五陵豪杰墓，无花无酒锄作田。 5월 7일 加州之梦
关于The Mamas and The Papas
二十世纪六十年代中期，The Mamas & the Papas在正出现的反文化潮流和广阔的流行市场间搭起了一座桥梁。在他们热情奔放、和谐美妙的音乐中，以民谣摇滚为基音，伴随着他们独特的形象和生活方式，因而非常易于被推广接受。1964年，乐队在加州成立。当时的成员为John Phillips和妻子Michelle、Cass Elliott、Denny Doherty。1965年，乐队受雇于Dunhill唱片公司，负责给公司旗下艺人伴唱。有感於该乐队的努力工作和John Phillips超凡的作曲天赋——“California Dreamin”(加州之梦)，公司和他们签了约。乐队在1966年推出了单曲“California Dreaming”，在排行榜排名第4，共售出了100万张。同年，“Monday, Monday”、“I Saw Her Again”都先后进入排行榜前5名。 尽管音乐在当时的西海岸反文化潮流的冲击下变得十分抽象，但The Mamas & the Papas却将大众流行化和严肃音乐的内涵在他们的作品中巧妙地结合起来。1967年，乐队因在“Monday, Monday”中的出色演绎获得了当年葛莱美最佳创作、年度最佳流行乐队两个奖项，6月，乐队参加了西海岸举办的蒙特利流行音乐节。
可能不是有很多人听说过这个组合，不过看过《重庆森林》或者是《阿甘正传》的话就应该记得《California Dreamin’》这首歌曲。金城武和王菲擦肩而过的时候（他们之间的距离是0.01公分），California Dreaming响起来，这是王菲第二次出场(之前是和林青霞在同一个商店。看着王菲跟着歌曲摇晃，我也在不经意中跟晃。)。王菲在快餐店也总听这首歌，在梁朝伟家中也听过...... 丛林中战斗的阿甘渴望回家的时候，想着珍尼的时候，插曲也是California Dreaming…... 通俗的曲式，唯美的人声，这是the Mamas & the Papas乐队给你的一个率意的黎明，在那片走不出的重庆森林里，有一个姑娘也曾经和我们一起为梦中的加洲手舞足蹈。“All the leaves are brown, and the sky in gray。I’ve been for a walk, on a winter’s day。”灰冷暗淡的冬日风露中，一曲畅快的’California Dreamin’ ，将我们带到温暖和煦的阳光海岸。
红颜知己 一
这个世界上，男人最需要的，除了一个老婆，还有一个红颜知己。 做红颜知己最重要的是恪守界限。 当你卧病在床与痛苦激战的时候，拉着你的手慌张无措泪流满面的那个人必是老婆。她怕你痛，怕你死，恨不得替你痛，替你死。她哭哭啼啼。痴痴缠缠，让你感动，让你心灵难安。而红颜知己不。红颜知己不哭，她只是站在床头，静静地凝望着你，阅读你的心灵，然后用她的口她的眼她的心告诉你她知道你痛在何处，她理解你，愿为你默默分担，让你灵魂不再孤寂，令你欣慰。由此可见二者的本质区别了：哭，是因为爱你；不哭，是因为懂你。 一个男人，假如生命中有一个刻骨铭心爱你的女人，又能有一个心有灵犀懂你的女人，夫复何求？ 红颜知己全是些绝顶智慧的女孩，她们心底里最明白：一个女人要想在男人的生命里永恒，要么做他的母亲，要么做他永远也得不到的红颜知己，懂他，但就是不属于他。 给他适可而止的关照，但不给他深情，不给他感到你会爱上他的威胁，也不让他产生爱上你的冲动与热情，这是做红颜知己的技巧。 你出门远行，音信全无，而前往地有重大自然灾害发生，红颜知己心有牵挂，多次拨电话，但每次均打不通，因为你关机。待你漂泊够了，蓬头垢面地站到她面前时，她只是盈盈地笑问：“好久不见，玩得开心吗？”她不会提及她的牵挂、她的忧虑，永远不会提。她知道提那些东西不是她的事，她不想爱情，只想友情。她就像一个顽皮的勾魂鬼，一只眼睛对着你就那么一挤一眨，便把你身上所有的男孩的那部分淘气、热情、活跃的分子勾了出来。在她面前，你惟有投降，无路可逃。 实在也是不能逃，不想逃。 通常情况下，老婆是倾诉者，而红颜知己则是聆听者。她也许是温柔的可人儿，也可能像豪爽的哥们儿，在她面前男人可以是倦鸟是浪子，可以疲惫、孤独、无助、逃避、怠惰，而她是能接纳你的黑夜，给你安静，做你恢复能量的空间。 如果说老婆是太阳，情人是月亮，那么红颜知己则是星星。太阳月亮有疲倦的时候，星星却没有，它闪闪烁烁若即若离，甘于寂寞却又灿烂而长久。 无论你在别人面前多么地高高在上，不可仰视，在红颜知己眼里都只有尊严没有威严。她能穿过层层面具，如入无人境地走进你的心灵，用一种你与她都懂的语言来和你进行灵魂的对话与交流。 故能做红颜知己的必是女人中的精品。 而能拥有红颜知己的也必是男人中的智者。 二 红颜知己其实是人生的三种境界 第一种境界是《诗经》中的,“蒹葭苍苍，白露为霜，所谓伊人，在水一方”一份可遇而不可求的机缘。因为距离，故将一切美丽收于一身。通常情况下，老婆占有男人，情人分享男人，而红颜知己则是塑造男人，她充分地挖掘他的潜力，并通过完善男人帮助男人来完成自己知己的使命。所以，红颜知己是男人的另一个魂灵，她时而近在咫尺，时而在水一方，但你却能感受到她在生命里存在；她不见得赞成你的人生观价值观，但绝对尊重你，并对你笃信和相知。红颜知己其实就是跟你一起点燃生命之火的那只温存的手，男人往往因了她，人生才变得活跃起来。因此，红颜知己才是旷世的绝代佳人。遗憾的是,大多数女人的聪明刚刚够不上做红颜知己，而男人欲望的陷阱也刚好令她做不成红颜知己，这就是为什么很多女人本来想扮演红颜知己后来却沦为情妇或陌路的根源。 故红颜知己实在是男人的奢想，女人的不甘。 第二种境界是宋词，“和羞走，倚门回首，却把青梅嗅”的诱惑。从本质上看，人是抗拒不了诱惑的，比如老婆和情人就没有诱惑——她们把它变成了现实；而红颜知己妙就妙在把诱惑保持住了，她因此而成为男人生命里积极向上的蔚蓝。当老婆令你头疼、情人让你心疼的时候，红颜知己则让你哪儿都不疼。她浑身洋溢着亲和力、想象力，带给你如沐春风的愉悦；是“不一定天天见、月月想、但什么时候见了都是故知重逢”的快慰；是你“无论身在何方、发生何事都能感受到的、在这个世界上的某个角落还有人会关注你、倾听你”的那份感动。她虽然淡淡地从你身边走过，只偶尔回眸，可你却不由自主地要跟在她身后，因为她对你生命的独特阅读方式，实在是你今生无法抗拒的诱惑。 而诱惑，不正是推动人前行的动力么？ 第三种境界是副对联，上联“招之即来”，下联“挥之即去”，横批“全为你好”。这一层境界将红颜知已与其他任何关系的女人区别开来：老婆是招之不来---事实上是她招你你必需来，情人是挥之不去---她还想要名份呢，怎肯轻易放弃？另有一种人——妓女是招之即来，挥之即去的，横批却又是“全为钱好”。只有红颜知已才最肯把主动权交到你手上。因为是朋友，所以没有性，没有爱，没有粉红色的情感，也没有痴痴缠缠恩恩怨怨的阴雨天；又因为是知已，故她能把所有的出发点都放在“为你着想”这个角度，本着理解，本着支持，也本着友谊的光光艳艳，她宽容着你亲密着你，她实在是已把知己一词的内涵推上了出神入化的顶端。 你想，人生得一知己已然不易，知己倘若又红颜，那该是怎样的艳丽。 5월 6일 五一游记这个长假和平时周末一样，还是在浦东度过的。浦东的朋友真多，都是老乡，不过也良莠不齐，做生意的，混黑道的，这就叫林子大了，什么鸟都有吧。开始天天在朋友公司打牌，意料之外的是能输钱，不过更意料之外的能得到一部三星SGH-D418手机。也许这样心里能平衡一些吧。后来又去给朋友租的商铺拍些照片，再传给远在米兰的朋友。虽然比较舒服，不过天天喝得晕晕的，也很累人。
5월 4일 迷迷糊糊的五一天天都是喝酒抽烟打牌，都不知道成什么，竟然和黑道上的人都交上朋友了，晕死了。
自我感觉走到哪看不出半点研究生的样子，是不是有点过了？
中午喝了，下午斗地主，再回徐汇拿相机，晚上又喝酒。  真不知道明天能不能起得来去浦东。3월 27일 ADO.NET编程之DataGrid自动分页ASP.NET中的DataGrid自动分页功能不建议用在大型数据库中，因为这会导致页面速度特慢，建议使用自定义分页功能。不过在此还是给出自动分页的代码，大家可以熟悉一下。
自动分页主要是利用DataGrid的AllowPaging属性。
1、引用名称空间：using System.Data.Sqlclient;
2、设置DataGrid1的AllowPaging属性为True，也就是开启了换页功能。PageSize属性设置一页显示数据记录的条数。
3、代码：
//数据邦定以输出数据表
private void Page_Load(object sender, System.EventArgs e)
{ // 在此处放置用户代码以初始化页面 SqlConnection myconn=new SqlConnection ("server=kevin;database=Northwind;uid='sa';pwd=");
string strcomm="select * from Employees"; DataSet mydataset=new DataSet(); SqlDataAdapter mycomm=new SqlDataAdapter(strcomm,myconn); myconn.Open(); mycomm.Fill(mydataset,"Employees"); DataGrid1.DataSource=mydataset.Tables["Employees"]; DataGrid1.DataBind(); myconn.Close(); }
//要实现数据表分页功能，还需要加上一个事件来处理，之后要将DataGrid1做重新邦定。
private void DataGrid1_PageIndexChanged
(object source, System.Web.UI.WebControls.DataGridPageChangedEventArgs e)
{ DataGrid1.CurrentPageIndex=e.NewPageIndex; DataGrid1.DataBind(); }
(初学的朋友有可能找不到
private void DataGrid1_PageIndexChanged
(object source, System.Web.UI.WebControls.DataGridPageChangedEventArgs e)
,其实很简单，在页面设计状态，DataGrid1的事件中，也就是那个像雷电的标记下面。双击其中的PageIndexChanged即可。 ) 3월 16일 在ASP.NET中访问SQLServer(二)介绍另一种访问数据库的方法：
1、引用名称空间：Using System.Data.Sqlclient;
2、主代码：
private void Page_Load(object sender, System.EventArgs e)
{ string strconn="server=localhost;uid=sa;pwd=;database=example"; SqlConnection sqlconn=new SqlConnection(strconn); string strcomm="select * from stuents"; SqlCommand sqlcomm=new SqlCommand(strcomm,sqlconn); sqlconn.open(); DataGrid1.DataSource=sqlcomm.ExecuteReader(CommandBehavior.CloseConnection); DataGrid1.DataBind(); sqlconn.close(); }
在ASP.NET中访问SQLServer以下所有教程的软件环境均为:ASP.NET1.0+C#+SQLServer200,所有核心程序代码均在ASP.NET设计状态下编写，不提供HTML格式。
在ASP.NET中访问SQLServer有多种方法,在此只列举一种：
(1)引用名称空间：Use System.Data.Sqlclient;
(2)编写主代码：
private void Page_Load(object sender, System.EventArgs e)
{
//创建SqlConnection对象
SqlConnection myconn=new SqlConnection("server=localhost;database=example;uid=sa;pwd=");
myconn.open();
string strSQL="select * from students";
//创建SqlDataAdapter对象
SqlDataAdapter mycomm=new SqlDataAdapter(strSQL,myconn);
//创建DataSet对象
DataSet ds=new DataSet();
//填充DataSet对象
mycomm.Fill(ds);
//绑定数据库到DataGrid
DataView source=new DataView( ds.Tables["students"]);
DataGrid1.DataSource=source;
DataGrid1.Bind();
myconn.close();
}
2월 17일 心如平原放马 易放难收日月如“神六”啊，一转眼研究生第一学期的生活就这么过去了。回首这半年，心乱如麻。得到了这来之不易的3年学生生活，同时也失去了太多的东西。
开学都一个多星期了，尽管我迟来了几天，在家过完年，可是心思还是不能马上回到校园。也许是寒假麻将打得太多的缘故吧。
心如平原放马，易放难收啊！ 1월 12일 我看刘江永教授 在新浪网偶读一篇文章，是清华大学国际关系研究所的教授刘江永写的：
文章称，必须指出，造成中日民间感情恶化的根子是日本政治的右倾化，具体表现形式之一是小泉首相参拜靖国神社并无形中将其上升到同中国的政治意志较量。与此同时，在中国政治民主化和社会的 信息化迅速发展的情况下，民众参与对日本的评论从来没有像今天这么广泛，这么自由，这么方便。日本问题和中日关系成为近年来中国民众最关心的国际问题之一。值得注意的是，近年来在国际互联网上，中日两国都出现所谓“愤青”现象。彼此没有接触却在网络上背对背地相互谩骂，这是十分危险的。对中国民众而言，针对日本右翼势力的言行和日本领导人参拜靖国神社等错误行为，提出批评是理所当然的，但要有所区别。因为中日友好符合两国人民的根本利益；中日友好归根结底是人民之间的友好。日本右翼势力就是要破坏中日友好，我们必须反其道而行之，而不能在客观上被其利用。
我对他的观点颇有异议。说到“愤青”，因为平时在军事论坛游荡，所以也见识不少，甚至同学给我的外号就是“愤青”。有人骂“愤青”，说他们只会歇斯底里的发泄，谩骂，其实是最无知的。有人顶“愤青”，说从他们中间看到中国未来的希望。我对“愤青”的看法就是他们是一帮依然在关注我们这个国家的年轻人，我一直把他们看作是5.4 精神的延续。我喜欢"愤青“，因为他们的言论能大快人心，能激起你无限的激情。还有就是他们对某些问题分析的透彻，观点的鲜明。我的观点是我们的国家不是多了这些人，而是少了这些”愤青“，也许再多一点愤青，会更好。
刘教授说到”因为中日友好符合两国人民的根本利益；中日友好归根结底是人民之间的友好。日本右翼势力就是要破坏中日友好，我们必须反其道而行之，而不能在客观上被其利用。“ 我不知道他是不是想表达日本大多数人是中日友好支持者，右翼分子只有那么一小撮。我的疑问是在资本主义这种所谓的”民主“国家，政策的制定不是已大多数民意为基准的？估计这个问题刘教授的回答也应该是肯定的，既然如此，那么小泉政府的对外政策就是代表日本国大多数人的。我不否认”中日友好是符合两国人民的根本利益“但是关键是现在中日并不友好，日本的咄咄逼人已经到了一个忍无可忍的地步。既然日本不想和中国友好，那么我们又何必对他友好呢？就像一个曾经来你家胡作非为的邻居，后来你们和解了，拥有了一段友好的光景，可是现在他又装B了，天天在你家门口谩骂，挑衅，难道你的做法只是忍让，对自己说要和邻居友好，友好，再友好。估计到最后你只会家都被他占了，他还会骂你一句”支那猪“！
刘教授说到”日本右翼势力就是要破坏中日友好，我们必须反其道而行之，而不能在客观上被其利用。“ 我不明白是什么意思。难道就是他在一个劲的破坏中日友好，我们一个劲的在弥补裂缝？那我们不就成了”119“了，到处灭火。既然他们破坏友好，那说明他们不明白中日友好对日本的重要性，索性我们也就顺水推舟。等到中日友好的神话彻底破灭时，等到日本频如崩溃时，也许他们才会真正的发现中日友好的重要性，也就是”得到的大家都不知道珍惜，到失去时才觉得可惜“。刘教授教导我们要”反其道而行之“，简直就是荒谬，幼稚。可知道在这个世界发展到哦今天这个地步，有哪个国家能靠着仁义，忍让赢得其他人的尊敬？？没有！！
其实从我们国家当前的外交导向能看出我们的外交真在走向大国气度，该出手时就出手。不知道刘教授写这文章是为了教导我们什么？？？。。。。。。
个人意见！ 1월 11일 见识了上海的开放与进步中午去打水，和小猪一起。走到食堂，看见一辆迷你雪弗莱，印有东广音乐台和杜雷斯字样。有几个女生正在做派发，起初还以为是洗发水呢，一个女生递给我一把，还问一句够不够，拿过一看，呵，一把安全套！一直看媒体报道现在这种活动，没想到今天自己就这么碰上了。拿就拿吧，送给同学,呵呵。
关于那不能忘却的10年今天阳光真好，都已经快4点了，还是夕阳斜照。刚刚洗过衣服，很冷。宿舍里已经没有人了，一个人坐在电脑前，喝着小猪的茶叶，听着学友的音乐，依旧是吞云吐雾，感觉真好。
最近又好多人和我聊天都谈到有关中国，中共的问题，好像我是专家，其实我不是，只是对政治军事比较感兴趣一点，平时多关注一点，略知一二罢了。今天主要就文革的问题发表我自己的一点的见解，不对之处敬请原谅。
首先声明我不是党员。我个人对中国共产党一直是很支持的，因为我崇拜！和在异地的朋友聊天时他对共产党用的是集权，腐败。。。我并不想说他的观点对与错，因为我没有资格。只谈个人看法。对于文化大革命，我的看法就是过去的历史我们必须铭记，不过没有必要死死揪住不放，甚至还要追究谁的责任。因为铭记历史是为了我们未来不要再犯同样的错误，就像巴金的遗愿一样，建一个纪念馆，可以时时提醒人们，在那个没有法制的年代，由于决策错误，甚至某个方面的认识出现偏差，给我们的国家和民族带来了多少痛楚。在我看来，文革对我们国民的最大伤害就是使得我们民族最优秀的人性出现扭曲，这个伤害不是大力发展经济能弥补的，也许会持续几代，甚至几十代。文革发起的最深刻原因我的理解就是法制的散失，“人治”替代了“法治”。假如象我们今天所提倡的“依法治国”就不会出现这种情况，所有事情应该按法办理，而不能按领导人的意思办。江泽民为“依法治国”作出的解释我很赞同，“政策不能因为领导人的更换而替换”。也许至今我们的法制作的还是不够，毕竟任何历史的进步必须要有一个过程。
最后向那些受迫害的我心中的战神表示敬意：彭德怀，刘伯承，贺龙。。。。。。
 1월 10일 观《无稽》有感 期待着的无极终于在前些天看完了。也许用一句话可以概括我的感受，就是“看了凯歌的无极，就会原谅艺模的英雄了”。
在中国电影界,第五代导演声名显赫,陈凯歌为其中代表人物,早期确实拍过好片子，很具特色,他的《霸王别姬》让我流泪，从此喜欢他的作品。而就象生活不断改变一样，人也在不断改变，反映到作品里,就清晰折射出来,其思想观念如何从纯朴堕落到腐朽：京剧旦角反串，小提琴手成长岁月，及批头散发,分不出是哪国人的古装戏,这些题材中国观众并不怎么欣赏，外国人却很感兴趣,说白了,这些是专门拍给外国人看的电影,一切以外国观众爱看为标准,不惜让中国女演员脱衣献媚取悦,这就决定了他电影的功利性,功利至上,一切都显得苍白了,导演既然已经堕落,电影内容又怎能不堕落.
在我的概念里，一部好电影不管是什么题材的，内容总是要有的，主题总应该是有的。不管你的场景是多么的宏伟，色彩是多么的绚丽，语言是多么的动人，没有了内容就像外表英俊的人没有了灵魂一样。
概括出无极的内容好像就是为了一个包子所以产生了一辈子的恨。
欲哭无泪，欲笑无声！
做了一次“愤青”今天下午陪Horry去给他在太原的女友买手机，那女人打电话来说要买索爱的，MD，我听了就火。去到宏图三胞，我竭力推荐买飞利浦或者是诺基亚的，坚决反对买索爱的。Horry要我给出理由，我就胡说一通:飞利浦的手机待机时间最长，拍照效果好。索爱的机子除了广告宣传大一点，没有什么优点，信号不好，辐射大。搞得Horry没法子决定，又打电话去求指示，我火得一比。最后我给出的理由就是没有必要买日货，有这么多的品牌可选，为什么要买那个龌龊国家的贱货呢!!!又不是没得选择。Horry被我说服了，不买，不过也不敢自作主张买飞利浦的，说是回去再商量。呵呵，挺爽，抵制日货了，没想到就这么容易。在有可选的情况下尽量不买日货。 今天一天还做了两件挺爽的事。 上午手机接到一条短信说我的信用卡在汇丰广场消费了8880元，让我打个固定的电话，是027的确认一下。一看就是诈骗的，肯定是说它是银联卡中心，让我报上卡号和密码。靠，当我是傻X，以为我是好忽悠的啊？何况大哥我卡上早没钱了，穷得叮当响，还消费8880块，日。我是个很有责任感的好公民！立马打110，有点不爽的就是竟然占线。打通了，接线员让我把短信给转发到一个警察的手机上以便调查。希望他们能把这伙诈骗分子审至以法，以解心头之恨。 晚上回来走在莘庄的路上，边发短信边走路，走到小桥流水对面时看到两个女人在打架，旁边还有一个婴儿。起初还以为是因为第三者插足什么之类的纠纷呢，走到跟前一看，被打的是个小女孩，打人者是个中年妇女，一听还满嘴新疆话，骂骂咧咧。被打的女孩有点孤立无援，我看不下去，就拨打了110，警察估计是因为新疆人不太好办，出警不时太快。警车到来时，带走了双方当事人。回到学校，又打了110主要是想知道处理结果，可是很郁闷的就是110老是占线，真不知道他们在干什么，足足重拨了5次才接通了，问道了派出所的电话，打过去，接听的是位中年男警察。就说了我很关注这个事情，问他处理结果，他说正在教育~~~~，我很不满意，他向我解释就是没有法子，只能这样，得按政策办事，我也能理解他们。不过他说的一句话我很喜欢，“要是以我个人的意思，抓起来统统枪毙，可是这不容许!" 好像从2001年开始全国各大中城市好像一夜之间冒出了无数的新疆贼，简直猖狂到了极点，可是好像人们都拿他们没辙，不知道政府以及公安系统是否应该好好研究，拿出个切实可行的方法来呢？我们的政策是全国各民族一律平等，现在好像少数民族凌驾于汉族之上了，无语。 还有最不能容忍的就是上海做为一个”国际性的大都市“，连守卫这座城市的公安局报警电话都能老占线，真的令人汗颜。要是这样，等打通电话，警察赶到，可能黄花菜都凉了。一直都说上海的110特强，接警3分钟内肯定到，今天的经历让我很是怀疑。这种情况的出现我认为可能有几种原因：1、110被很多人戏打，所以阻塞了信息的正常接收；2、就是110接警电话不够，所以处理不过来； 3、就是接线员工作不负责任。前一种可以通过严惩那些无故拨打110者，中间可以通过增加投入，增加设备来解决。最后一种，也是我不想看到的，要是那样的话就是上海人民的悲哀了。记得一句话：当官不为民作主，不如回家卖白薯。希望有关职能部门的领导能引起重视。先进性教育不能仅停留在口头上，还是应该在工作中体现出来。也希望下次我拨打110报警能很畅通。 看来今天可写话题真的很多，中午联通UP新势力在学校做活动，免费派发手机卡，内附话费20元，有点猥琐的我们几个竟拿了近20份，几乎就是400元的花费，估计这个寒假我可以疯狂的煲电话粥了，因为有个使用期限。看来还是不能戒了这个”贪“字啊。
1월 9일 当爱已成往事 放假要回家了，心头一直有件事没做，那就是看望叔叔阿姨。虽然我不知道怎么面对他们，不知道怎么安慰他们，可是我不能逃避，有些事情还是要勇敢的去面对，也相信他们能理解我。
刚才和以前的同学聊了一会天，耽误了一会。同学和他男友都在华师大读研，很相爱，希望他们能幸福。前天他们来看我了，好高兴，听到文正说我胖了，不错，这半年的学生生活没有白过。
阿姨一直不知道我和hong的事情，当我无意说出时我能感觉到阿姨的那种受打击的心情，她流泪了。想想阿姨这几年来对我一直很好，甚至比对她自己的儿子都要好，可是到头来我却令她如此失望，真的很抱歉。
回想起这几年来我经历这许多的成败得失，也许这是上天注定我要经历的吧。
走到这一步，没有其他的想法，只是期望她能过得好就可以了，毕竟大家曾经真爱过，也许这就够了。
只期望以后能有些许小成，能回报所有关爱我的人。毕竟有些情意是不能被忘却的，这就是我做人的一种哲学吧。记住众人对我的关爱，忘记别人对我的伤害。
1월 6일 考试====〉完了终于考试完了。上午的政治《科学技术哲学》考得真的很爽，因为是开卷。不过很惭愧，最后一题有关自己读的书的感想我写的是潘知常的《王国维独上高楼》，这本书我自己都没有读过，图书馆也没找到，网上连电子版的都没有，只能找一篇它的读后感了~~~数据库作业是设计好了，不过又揽下敖鱼的活了，就当是多一篇作业吧。叶老师的书单又来了：
软件工程篇
《分析模式：可重用对象模型》
《设计模式解析》
《重构：改善既有代码的设计》
《软件需求管理：用例方法》
.NET技术篇
《.NET分布式编程——C#篇》
《ASP.NET Web 站点高级编程——提出问题-设计方案-解决方案》
《ASP.NET电子商务高级编程——提出问题—设计方案—解决方案》
《ASP.NET 1.1高级编程》
《C#高级编程（第3版）》
看着这么多的书单就出汗。
1월 4일 无语......都一个多月没来自己的msn空间了，最近也是太忙了。
处理自己许多的私事，复习考试。
又去看了《上海伦巴》的首映式，在现场看到了袁泉，崔杰。喜欢那里面的爵士蓝调音乐。
元旦晚上去上海音乐学院听了一场交响乐会，真的很不错，激情澎湃。
....... 12월 5일 English LearningOne man's meat is another man's poison
People are quite illogical when they try to demand what can be eaten and what can not be eaten. If you lived in the Meditearrana, for intance, you would find octpus a great delicacy. You would not be able to understand why some people find it repulsive. Your stomach would turn at the idea of frying potatoes in animal fat-----normally accepted practice in many northern countries. The sad truth is that most of us have been brought up to eat certain foods and we stick to them all my lives.
No creature has received more praise and abuse than the comman garden snail. Cooked in wine, snails are a great luxury in various parts of the world. There are countless people who, ever since early years, have learned to associate snails with food. My friend, Robert, lives in a country where snails are despised. As his flat is in a large town, he has not a garden of his own. He has been asking me collect snails from my garden and take them to him. The idea never appealed to me, but one day, after a heavy shower, I happened to be walking in my garden when I noticed a huge number of snails taking a stroll on my prize plants. Acting on a sudden impluse, I connected sevel dozen , put them into a paper box, and took them to Robert. Robert was delighted to see me and equally pleased to my little gift. I left the paper box in the hall and Robert and I went into the living room where we talked for a couple of hour. I had forgotten all about snails when Robert said that I must stay to dinner. The snails would, of course, be the main dish. I did not fancy the idea and I reluctantly followed Robert out of the room. To dismay to us, there were snails everythere: they had escaped from the paper box and had taken completely possession of the hall!!! I never be able to see a snail ever since.
11월 29일 English Learning 26By Heart
Many plays are so popular that they runs for years on end. In some ways, this is unfortunate to the poor actors who are required to go on repeating the same lines night after night. One expect them to know their parts in heart and never have cause to falter. Yet this is not always the case.
A famous actor in a highly successful play was once cast an aristocrat who had been imprisoned in the Bastille for twenty years. In last act , a gaoler would always come on to the stage with a letter which he would hand to the prisoner. Even though the noble was expected to read the letter at each performance, he always insisted that it should be written out in full.
One night, the gaoler decided to play a joke on his colleague to find out if, after so many performances, he managed to learn his lines in heart. The curtain went up on the last act of the play and revealed the aristocrat sitting behind bars in his dark cell. Just then, the gaoler appeared the precious letter in his hands. He entered the cell and presented the letter to the prisoner. But the letter he gave him has not been written out in full as usual. It was simply a blank sheet of paper. The gaoler looked on eagerly, anxiously to see if the fellow actor had at last learnt his lines. The noble stared at the blank sheet of paper for a few seconds. Then, squinting his eyes, he said:' The light is dim. Read the letter to me.' And he promptly handed the blank sheet of paper to the gaoler. Finding that he could not remembered a word fo the letter, he replied:' The light is indeed dim. I must get my glasses.' With this, he hurried off the stage. Much to the aristocrat's amusement, the gaoler returned a few moments with a pair glasses and the usual letter which he proceeded to read to the prisoner.
11월 28일 English Learning 25Danel Mendoza
Boxing matches were very popular in England two hundred years ago. In those days, they fought with bare fists for prize money. They were known as 'prizefrighters'. However, boxing was very crude for there were no rules and a frighter could be seriously injured and even killed during a match.
One of the most colorful figures in boxing history was Danel Mendoza, who was born in 1764. The use of golves was not until 1860, when the Marquis of Queenberry drew up the set of rules. Though he was technically a prizefighter, Mendoza did much to change crude boxing into a sport, for he brought science to the game. In his days, he enjoyed tremendous popularity. He was adored by rich and poor alike.
Mendoza rose the fame swiftly since a boxing match when he was fourteen years old. This abstracted the attention of Richard Humphries who was the best eminent boxer in England. He offered to train Mendoza and his young pupil was quick to study. In fact, Mendoza soon became so successful that Humphries turned against him. The two men quarrelled bitterly and it was clear that the argument could only be settled by a match. A match was held at Stilton where both men fought for one hour. The public bet a great deal of money on Mendoza but he was defeated. Mendoza met Humphries in the ring on a later occasion and he lost for a second time. It was not until his third match in 1790 that he finally beat Humphries and became Champion of England. Meanwhiles, he founded a highly successful frightting Academy and even Lord Byorn became one of his pupils. He eared enormous money and was paid $100 for a single appearance. Despite this, he was so extravagant that he was always in debt. After he was defeated by a boxer called Gentleman Jackson, he was quickly forgotten. He sent to prison for failing to pay for his debt and died in poverty in 1836.
11월 24일 English Learning 24Pioneer Pilots
In 1908 Lord Northcliffe offered a prize of $1,000 to the first person who would fly across the English channel. After over a year passed before the first attempt was made. On July 19th, 1909, in the early morning, Hubert Latham took off from the French coast in his plane ' Ant.. IV '. He has travelled only twenty-seven miles when his engine failed and he was forced to land on the sea. The ' Ant.. ' floated on the water until he was picked up by a ship.
Two days after, Lousis arrived near Cassal with his plane called 'No. XI'. Lousis had been making planes since 1905 and this was the latest model. He had completed a successful overland flight during which he covered thirty-seven miles. Latham, however, did not give up esaily. He arrived near Cassal on the same day with his new ' Ant...'. It looked as if there would be an exciting race across the channel. Both planes were going to take off on July 25th, but Latham failed to get up early enough. After a short test flight at 4:15 a.m., Lousis took off half an hour later. His great flight lasted thirty-seven minutes. When he landed near Dover, the first person to greet him was a local policeman. Latham made another flight a week later and got within a mile of Dove, but he was unlucky again. His engine failed and he landed on the sea for the second time.
11월 23일 English Learning 23A very dear cat
Kidnappers are rarely interested in animals, but they recently took interest in Mrs. ER's cat. Mrs. ER, a very wealthy old lady, has shared a flat with her cat, Rcat, for a great many of years. Rcat leads an orderly life. He usually takes a short walk in evening and is always home by seven o'clock. One evening, however, he failed to arrive. Mrs. ER had got worried. She looked everywhere for him but could not find him.
Three days after Rcat's disappearance, Mrs. ER received an anonymous letter. The writer stated that Rcat was in safe hands and would returned immediately if Mrs.ER paid a ransom of $1000. Mrs.ER was instructed to place the money a cardboard box and to leave it outside her door. At first she decided to go to the police, but fearing that she would never see Rcat again--the letter made that clear--she changed her mind. She withdrew $1000 from her bank and followed the kidnapper's instructions. The next morning the box was disappeared but Mrs.ER was sure that the kidnapper would keep his word. Sure enough, Rcat arrived puncturally at seven o'colck . He looked very well, though he was rather thirsty, for he drank half bottle of milk. The police were astounded when Mrs.ER told them what she had done. She explained Rcat was very dear to her. Considering the amount she paid, he was dear in more ways than one.
English Learning 22Electric currents in modern art
Modern sculpture rarely surprises us any more. The idea that modern sculpture can only be seen in museums is mistaken. Even people who take no interest in art can not have failed to notice examples of modern sculputure on display in public places. Strange forms stand on display in garden , and outside building and shops. We have got used to quite familiar them. Some so-called ' modern ' pieces have been on display for nearly eighty years.
In spite of this , some people--including myself--were surprised by a recently exhibition of modern sculpture. The first thing I saw when I entered the art gallery was notice which wrote: ' Do not touch the exhibits. Some of them are dangerous.' The objects on the diplay were pieces of moving sculpture. Oddly shaped forms which are suspended from the ceiling and move in response to a gust of wind are quite familiar to everybody. These objects, however , were different. Lined up against the wall, there were long thin wires attached to metal speres. The speres had been magnetized and abstracted or repelled each other all the time. In the enter of the hall, there were a number of tall structures containing colour lights . The lights flickered continously like traffic lights which have gone mad. Sparks were emitted from some black boxes and red lamps flashed on and off angrily. It was rather like a prehistoric exhibition of electronic equipments. These peculiar forms not only seemed designed to shock people emotionally, but to give them electric shocks as well.
11월 22일 忙碌着 已有四五天没写日记了，有点不知从何写起了。人困得狠，从5点多睡到8点，起来还是老样，听许巍吧。周末两天都在浦东，一直在陪朋友看房子，看了好几处高档楼盘，甚至还有国际社区。凭什么这些人这么有钱？苦就苦了好几天没能看书，回来后又累又困，唉。
歌德说的好最值得高度珍惜的莫过于每一天的价值。” 按计划明天又要出去，这个星期就这样忙碌的度过？
天下之熙熙者，多为名也
天下之嚷嚷者，多为利也
和以前的同学聊到未来，他很悲观，也是，房子，车子。。。。。。
11월 19일 English Learning 21The longest suspension bridge in the world
Verrazano, an Italian about whom little is konwn, sailed into the New York Harbour in 1624 and named it Angouleme. He described it as ' a very agreeable situation lacated within two small hills in the midist of which flowed a great river. ' Though Verrazano was by no means considered as a great explorer, his name will be immortal, for on November 21st , 1964, the longest suspension bridge in the world was named after him.
The Verrazano Bridge, which was designed by OA, joins Brooklye to A Island. It has a span of 4,260 feet. The bridge is so long that the shape of the earth had to be taken to account by the designers. Two great towers support four huge cables. The towers are built on the immense underwater platforms made of steel and concrete. The platforms extend to a depth of over 100 feet under the sea. These alone took sixteen months to bulid. Above the surface of the water, the tower rise to a height of nearly 700 feet. They support the cables from which the bridge had been suspended. Each of four cables contains 26,168 lengths of wire. It has been estimated that if the bridge were packed with cars, it would still be carring a third of its capcity. However, size and strength are not the only important things about the bridge. Despite its immensity, it is both simple and elegant, fulfilling its designers' dream to create a enormous object drawn as faint as possible.
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